OK, so you guys are not going to believe what I did to keep from having to remove that transmission, this is some backyard mechanic, on the road and i need to get home crap that most would say it will not work.
So I made this, it took a few hours to figure it out and get it the proper length.

I put the eye over this nub on the back of the starter.

I made this connection that is bolted to one of the intake throttle body mount bolts.

I then put it all in there and tightened the nut on the top, it's kinda hard to determine how much to tighten that nut.

I have no idea if this will actually work as it is very hard to see down there to see if the starter lifted any when I tightened that nut at the top, I plugged the block warmer in as it is 35 degrees out there and that engine would be really tough to start, I will let it heat up and try it out, if it sounds good and don't make them weird sounds like it is skipping teeth I will call it good right now and get back to the work truck conversion.
The thing is that the starter is actually being forced out when I turn the engine over and it sounds weird, if it sounds normal when I turn it over this time then I will be happy, as I then will believe that it is not being forced out/away from the flywheel.
I will not be driving this truck anyway as it is very hard to start this time of year, it likely needs new glow plugs, but the last set I bought from Baxters blew up like balloons on the end of the glow plug and I was very lucky to get them out of the holes they thread into, I had to use vice grips to get them out after I ran out of threads.
“The difference between genius and stupidly is that genius has its limits” Albert Einstein